The Scarcest Commodity on Earth

March 15, 2016 by  
Filed under Age of Ascension, New Posts

Do you know what it is?

Surprise

SURPRISE!

It’s SELF-LOVE!

Here are 4 simple steps to increase your Self-Love.

1. Do you love yourself unconditionally?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you love yourself?

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Write down a number from 1 to 10 this very minute.

It’s important for you to answer this question before continuing.

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OK.  Now please continue.

Are you focused on the flaws you see in yourself?

OR

Do you love yourself despite all the flaws you may see?

You came into this life with gifts.

You also came into this life with flaws, sometimes called challenges.

You came to experience those challenges, to learn from them, and to heal them.

Your gifts are there to help you heal those challenges.

Some of the gifts actually appear as challenges.

Some of the challenges actually are gifts when you look at them from the higher perspective.

It’s all perfect.  Your life plan is perfect.

RECOGNIZE YOUR DIVINE PERFECTION.

Without self-love, you’re making your life more difficult.

Is that what you really want to do?

2. Have you eliminated self criticism?

Is there a little voice inside your head yelling at you, calling you dumb or stupid, and telling you that you’re no good or not good enough?

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Do you berate and abuse yourself over the tiniest things?

OR

Do you speak in supportive, loving ways to yourself when things don’t come out the way you expected or wanted?

Mistakes are how we learn.

Mistakes are gifts to ourselves so that we CAN learn.

From this perspective, there really are no mistakes at all.

There are simply opportunities to learn that we give ourselves.

Make a commitment.

Stop judging yourself. 

Stop criticizing yourself.

Be kind to yourself.

 

The judgmental, critical voice in your head is a part of you who feels unloved and is trying in the only way it knows how, to increase self-love.

Unfortunately, the method it’s using is doomed to failure.

Fortunately, this part of you can be helped to shift into greater love and kindness.

3. When did you last forgive yourself?

If you made choices in the past that caused you to feel less than worthy, then you need to forgive yourself.

There’s really no need to beat yourself up over the past. Holding on and abusing yourself keeps the old pains and the old stories going.

Isn’t it time for a change?

You DESERVE forgiveness.

When you forgive yourself, it’s like setting a prisoner free, and you discover that the prisoner was YOU.

4. Have you changed your mantra lately?

Identify and transform all

negative, low energy

messages you are giving yourself.

Transform them into

UPLIFTING,

EMPOWERING

MESSAGES.

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Practice these 4 steps for a week.

Then rate your self-love again on a scale from 1 to 10.

You may be surprised to see how much your self-love has grown.